Comments on: Hoarding, or Sharing, the Light?

By: David M. Dye

David M. Dye — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 21:46:48 +0000

Wow, Jane,

What a sad first story. I’ve observed or experienced a few transactions like it where people actively wanted to learn and be influenced by an oblivious, insecure, or ego-filled leader who missed a huge opportunity to expand their own influence and make a bigger dent in the universe.

As for the second story – what a powerful example of customer-focus and building influence. Assuming you do a good job, the client will remember her recommendation and likely look to her again in her expertise and you’ll certainly remember it and reciprocate when the moment arises.

When we add value to others, we win.

Thanks for this!

David

By: Mary C Schaefer

Mary C Schaefer — Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:47:49 +0000

Really great post, Jane. Powerful examples and a powerful message.

By: Karin Hurt

Karin Hurt — Sat, 16 Feb 2013 17:33:52 +0000

Jane, what a story. It’s particularly disturbing to see such behaviors in those working to lead transformation… although I have seen it as well. Thanks for sharing these important examples and lists.

By: Jane Perdue

Jane Perdue — Tue, 12 Feb 2013 21:57:25 +0000

Mike, appreciate your kind words! Sharing does make the world a better place and in no way diminishes the giver.

By: Jane Perdue

Jane Perdue — Tue, 12 Feb 2013 21:55:45 +0000

BIG, big thanks, Chery, for your kind words…much appreciated!

By: Mike Henry

Mike Henry — Tue, 12 Feb 2013 17:01:33 +0000

Great post Jane and an excellent contrast. We don’t have anything to lose by helping others win. Thanks for the challenging reminder. Mike…

By: Chery Gegelman

Chery Gegelman — Tue, 12 Feb 2013 16:34:49 +0000

Love the story and the point you make Jane!

This quote is especially powerful! “If you have knowledge, let others light their candles with it.” ~ Margaret Fuller

Thank you for sharing!