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		<title>By: What&#8217;s Your Agenda?</title>
		<link>http://leadchangegroup.com/sincerity-office-politics/comment-page-1/#comment-305</link>
		<dc:creator>What&#8217;s Your Agenda?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 02:54:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] building in Networking Inside the Company Walls.  Mike wrote about authenticity and sincerity in Sincerity in Office Politics.  I encourage you to share your thoughts on any and all of these excellent [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Mike Henry</title>
		<link>http://leadchangegroup.com/sincerity-office-politics/comment-page-1/#comment-304</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Henry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 01:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Katy for the comment.  I agree that alignment enables productivity, but I would say that trust acts like a turbo-charger. Alignment without trust will only take you to some level of productivity lower than alignment with trust.  Thanks, Mike...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Katy for the comment.  I agree that alignment enables productivity, but I would say that trust acts like a turbo-charger. Alignment without trust will only take you to some level of productivity lower than alignment with trust.  Thanks, Mike&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Henry</title>
		<link>http://leadchangegroup.com/sincerity-office-politics/comment-page-1/#comment-303</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Henry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 01:08:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the great comment.  I agree false sincerity stems from either fear or uninformed selfishness.  And I say uninformed because it&#039;s generally in our true best interest to promote the greater &quot;we&quot; than the lesser &quot;me.&quot;  Even if the group&#039;s best interest is different than our own, it&#039;s generally in our true best interest to be about something bigger than ourselves.  Thanks again. Mike...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the great comment.  I agree false sincerity stems from either fear or uninformed selfishness.  And I say uninformed because it&#8217;s generally in our true best interest to promote the greater &#8220;we&#8221; than the lesser &#8220;me.&#8221;  Even if the group&#8217;s best interest is different than our own, it&#8217;s generally in our true best interest to be about something bigger than ourselves.  Thanks again. Mike&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Katy</title>
		<link>http://leadchangegroup.com/sincerity-office-politics/comment-page-1/#comment-302</link>
		<dc:creator>Katy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 20:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lots of great thoughts in here.  People who don&#039;t like each other (or even trust each other) can usually still manage to work together if their goals are in alignment.  If there&#039;s a serious lack of trust in an environment, it will take time to rebuild it.  In the meantime you can usually restore productivity by focusing on aligning goals across the board.
.-= Katy´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://surviveyourpromotion.com/2010/01/27/25-tools-every-manager-should-know/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;25 Tools Every Manager Should Know&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lots of great thoughts in here.  People who don&#8217;t like each other (or even trust each other) can usually still manage to work together if their goals are in alignment.  If there&#8217;s a serious lack of trust in an environment, it will take time to rebuild it.  In the meantime you can usually restore productivity by focusing on aligning goals across the board.<br />
.-= Katy´s last blog ..<a href="http://surviveyourpromotion.com/2010/01/27/25-tools-every-manager-should-know/" rel="nofollow">25 Tools Every Manager Should Know</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Meredith Bell</title>
		<link>http://leadchangegroup.com/sincerity-office-politics/comment-page-1/#comment-301</link>
		<dc:creator>Meredith Bell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 14:48:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mike, this is such an important post.

As I read it, I thought back 27 years ago - the last time I was employed by someone else. I left that organization exactly because of the things you describe here - office politics, lack of sincerity, and lack of trust. I just didn&#039;t have the stomach for that kind of environment (Literally, it was making me sick because of the conflict between my value system and what I was experiencing every day.). So one of the other HUGE impacts of office politics and a lack of sincerity is turnover. The people who not only value but REQUIRE authenticity in their relationships will not stick around to see if things change.

For someone to implement the 6 excellent steps you outlined, I believe they must possess emotional maturity, high self-esteem, and a genuine respect for other human beings. A person lacking any of those is more likely to resort to false authenticity (is that an oxymoron?). I&#039;d just add that anyone interested in implementing the 6 steps needs to recognize the personal strengths that will be required throughout the process and realize it&#039;s worth the effort to ensure a transparent culture. It makes a tremendous difference in how people feel about coming to work, the work itself and themselves.
.-= Meredith Bell´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourvoiceofencouragement.com/2010/01/you-can-win-battle-but-lose-war.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;You Can Win the Battle but Lose the War&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mike, this is such an important post.</p>
<p>As I read it, I thought back 27 years ago &#8211; the last time I was employed by someone else. I left that organization exactly because of the things you describe here &#8211; office politics, lack of sincerity, and lack of trust. I just didn&#8217;t have the stomach for that kind of environment (Literally, it was making me sick because of the conflict between my value system and what I was experiencing every day.). So one of the other HUGE impacts of office politics and a lack of sincerity is turnover. The people who not only value but REQUIRE authenticity in their relationships will not stick around to see if things change.</p>
<p>For someone to implement the 6 excellent steps you outlined, I believe they must possess emotional maturity, high self-esteem, and a genuine respect for other human beings. A person lacking any of those is more likely to resort to false authenticity (is that an oxymoron?). I&#8217;d just add that anyone interested in implementing the 6 steps needs to recognize the personal strengths that will be required throughout the process and realize it&#8217;s worth the effort to ensure a transparent culture. It makes a tremendous difference in how people feel about coming to work, the work itself and themselves.<br />
.-= Meredith Bell´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.yourvoiceofencouragement.com/2010/01/you-can-win-battle-but-lose-war.html" rel="nofollow">You Can Win the Battle but Lose the War</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Henry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike Henry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 11:06:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kelly, thanks for the great comment. Fear is the big problem. It causes us to mask our behaviors and it also causes us to look out for ourselves.  I&#039;m working on another series about how to create win-win environments.  Win-win always requres someone to go last.  You can only do that if you don&#039;t &quot;fear&quot; loss from letting everyone else win first.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelly, thanks for the great comment. Fear is the big problem. It causes us to mask our behaviors and it also causes us to look out for ourselves.  I&#8217;m working on another series about how to create win-win environments.  Win-win always requres someone to go last.  You can only do that if you don&#8217;t &#8220;fear&#8221; loss from letting everyone else win first.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Ketelboeter</title>
		<link>http://leadchangegroup.com/sincerity-office-politics/comment-page-1/#comment-298</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly Ketelboeter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 22:25:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fantastic post Mike!

Transparency when leading and in all relationships is so important. It builds and sustains the trust. I had never really considered it to play a role in office politics. You are right on the money when you say that, &quot;Office politics rise when objectives are not shared or clearly understood.&quot; That just makes so much sense.  So not only do we need to transparent we need to be able to communicate effectively.  When people aren&#039;t on the same page and in the same book personal agendas do and will get in the way.

The tips you provided are extremely helpful in building successful relationships in the work place where everyone is working towards the same end goal.

The one thing that I think may keep people from being transparent and authentic is the fear that their thoughts, feelings or beliefs will not be accepted.  In turn they may alienate themselves by not being truly authentic. An open mind among all team players is key along with the patience and grace you recommended.  It&#039;s up to the leader to foster an environment where people safe and accept their differences as well as focus on the strengths they bring to the team.

Cheers!
Kelly</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fantastic post Mike!</p>
<p>Transparency when leading and in all relationships is so important. It builds and sustains the trust. I had never really considered it to play a role in office politics. You are right on the money when you say that, &#8220;Office politics rise when objectives are not shared or clearly understood.&#8221; That just makes so much sense.  So not only do we need to transparent we need to be able to communicate effectively.  When people aren&#8217;t on the same page and in the same book personal agendas do and will get in the way.</p>
<p>The tips you provided are extremely helpful in building successful relationships in the work place where everyone is working towards the same end goal.</p>
<p>The one thing that I think may keep people from being transparent and authentic is the fear that their thoughts, feelings or beliefs will not be accepted.  In turn they may alienate themselves by not being truly authentic. An open mind among all team players is key along with the patience and grace you recommended.  It&#8217;s up to the leader to foster an environment where people safe and accept their differences as well as focus on the strengths they bring to the team.</p>
<p>Cheers!<br />
Kelly</p>
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		<title>By: Tweets that mention Sincerity and Office Politics -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 21:17:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Wally Bock, zanesafrit, Mike Henry Sr., Mike Henry Sr., Mike Henry Sr. and others. Mike Henry Sr. said: Just posted: Sincerity &amp; Office Politics http://bit.ly/6oFkb4 second in a series with @thehrgoddess @jennifervmiller &amp; @SusanMazza #OPQ [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Wally Bock, zanesafrit, Mike Henry Sr., Mike Henry Sr., Mike Henry Sr. and others. Mike Henry Sr. said: Just posted: Sincerity &amp; Office Politics <a href="http://bit.ly/6oFkb4" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/6oFkb4</a> second in a series with @thehrgoddess @jennifervmiller &amp; @SusanMazza #OPQ [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Henry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mike Henry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 19:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As usual, you got me thinking about something else that&#039;s a pet peeve too.  We are responsible for how we&#039;re interpreted.  We have a responsibility to do everything we can to be properly understood. Sometimes we think that if people misunderstand us, that&#039;s their fault.  But in order to be authentic, we need the feedback to make sure our message is received with the same meaning it was sent.
Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As usual, you got me thinking about something else that&#8217;s a pet peeve too.  We are responsible for how we&#8217;re interpreted.  We have a responsibility to do everything we can to be properly understood. Sometimes we think that if people misunderstand us, that&#8217;s their fault.  But in order to be authentic, we need the feedback to make sure our message is received with the same meaning it was sent.<br />
Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: David Andrews</title>
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		<dc:creator>David Andrews</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 19:43:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post Mike.

I like the &#039;trust&#039; factor.  In New Zealand I&#039;ve found most people have  highly refined &#039;bulls%$t antennae&#039; which pretty quickly picks up leaders that are &#039;faking it until the make it&#039;.

Enjoying your blog and tweets - keep it up!
.-= David Andrews´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://davidrandrews.wordpress.com/2010/01/22/blinded-by-the-light/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Blinded by the light?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post Mike.</p>
<p>I like the &#8216;trust&#8217; factor.  In New Zealand I&#8217;ve found most people have  highly refined &#8216;bulls%$t antennae&#8217; which pretty quickly picks up leaders that are &#8216;faking it until the make it&#8217;.</p>
<p>Enjoying your blog and tweets &#8211; keep it up!<br />
.-= David Andrews´s last blog ..<a href="http://davidrandrews.wordpress.com/2010/01/22/blinded-by-the-light/" rel="nofollow">Blinded by the light?</a> =-.</p>
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