You can’t have an omelet without first breaking the eggs.

by  Chery Gegelman  |  Self Leadership

This post was originally posted on Chery’s Giana Consulting Blog.

My Grandfather was a WWII Battle of the Bulge Veteran and although his nature was to accept whatever life handed him and to move on, the memories of the brokenness & devastation that the war created left a shadow of questions that haunted him.

For years he did his best to cope, while raising a large family, and tending to a farm.  When his youngest Grandchildren started asking about the war he found some healing by sharing stories with family and fellow veterans, but the questions themselves remained.

In 2004, 60 years after the battle he accompanied a number of veterans back to those battlefields.  Considering the devastation of the homes, the cities and the lives that were directly impacted by the battles, Grandpa was not sure what kind of a welcome they would receive.  Much to his surprise, everywhere they went they treated as heroes!

On one particular day Grandpa was given the opportunity to choose a destination on his own, and was accompanied by only a guide, an interpreter, and my Father.  Everywhere they went that day, Grandpa was received with the same appreciation and honor that the group had been receiving.  City Officials came out to meet him and shake his hand.  Grandchildren ran out to thank him for their bed-ridden Grandparents.

Grandpa was honored and shocked by the reactions he was getting and finally voiced his thoughts, “How can you be so grateful when we left your homes, cities & country in such devastation?”

The guide was a Belgium citizen that had became a political prisoner when the Nazi’s invaded France and spent time in a concentration camp.  His simple response was delivered with a spirit of gratitude and understanding…

“You can’t have an omelet, without first breaking the eggs.”

When the light of that truth met the darkness in Grandpa’s memories, he began to realize that the destruction he thought he was a part of, was the catalyst for hope, freedom & healing to begin.

If you are currently under-fire and experiencing brokenness in your community, your workplace, your church, or your home; be encouraged that this season in your life is temporary.  And that brokenness is always a catalyst for something new and something whole.

Additional Resources:

  • Everything has a season.  A time to break down, and a time to build up.  Eccl 3:3
  • Visions make leaders passionate, thorns keep them authentic.” John Maxwell
  • Song:  Healing Begins by Tenth Avenue North
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Chery Gegelman was once a frustrated visionary that learned to lead extensive system-wide changes from the middle. Today she is The Founder of Giana Consulting, listed as a Great Leadership Speaker by Inc., writes a recognized leadership blog and has co-authored two books. Her passion is bringing help and understanding to people and organizations that are leading through change to growth.  »  View Profile

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Laurinda  |  07 May 2011  |  Reply

You should use that quote as a title of a book. The History Channel had a series on the Dark Ages. I found it amazing that the dark ages gave birth to the Renaissance.

Great article.

Chery Gegelman  |  07 May 2011  |  Reply

Laurinda – Thank you for the response and the idea! What an encouraging book that would be!

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